Embark on a Journey that Redefines Joy Without Being Someone
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Book Announcement
I'm gearing up towards book project number 4 and this time it will be co-created with your help.
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Research & writing is on-going follow the process with exclusive interviews and conversations.
Learn the steps (Coming soon)Review and support
Participate in sharing resources, making introductions and being the first to read chapters as they become ready.
Share your perspective (Coming Soon)Global launch of book
Pioneer the launch of The Unbelievable Joy of not needing to be (a) someone
Be an ambassador (Coming soon)What is the book about?
The Unbelievable Joy of not needing to be (a) someone
This book explores how to end any need to be different than you are.
“The best-kept secret is that we have all we need to be selfless, servant leaders within us. We already are servant leaders and selfless service is our true nature beyond the ego. ”

Not needing to be someone means we have complete freedom to be and enjoy exactly how we already ARE.
- We don't need to improve
- We don't need to change
- We don't need to judge
- We don't need to fear.
Our expression as life happens naturally, organically, and spontaneously. We flow as life because we discover that we ARE life.
Not needing to be someone comes from understanding that:
- Thoughts are not yours and they're lying to you
- You're not in control of anything at all
- You're not a child you need to parent
- Your life is not a project to manage
- You can't understand life from within the mind
- Status/power makes you more (not less) insecure
- There is no need for purpose, meaning, or goals in life.
These are also the 7 themes of the book.
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- November 13, 2024
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- Discusses restructuring a group focused on sharing direct experience stories through a more formalized meeting format with specific time allocations for writing, sharing, and discussion. Proposes implementing a structured onboarding process with specific requirements and friction points to ensure quality participation. Plans to automate processes and create a self-regulating system that can scale while maintaining focus on direct experience rather than theory.
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- November 6, 2024
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- Discusses the evolution of a group project focused on sharing direct experiences through both written stories and verbal sharing, using templates and prompts. Explores various formats and structures for collecting and sharing these experiences, including the possibility of creating a book or online platform. Concludes with plans to restructure the format to better integrate writing and speaking components while making it more accessible to new participants.
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- October 30, 2024
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- Discusses the development of a collaborative storytelling project focused on sharing personal experiences of non-dual awareness through anonymous submissions using a five-prompt template. Explores the transition from theoretical discussions to direct experiential sharing, with an emphasis on making non-duality accessible to modern audiences. Details the testing phase of the template system and the group's intention to expand participation once the framework is refined.
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